“It doesn’t help me if you hide your feelings.”
“I’m not hiding them, I just don’t know how to verbalize them.”
“I get that. I do. But you can’t just not talk about these things. It will eat you up inside.”
“Maybe. But I’m not nearly as scared for Isaac as you are right now. I don’t see surgery as elective. If he needs surgery at some point we will deal with it, but otherwise, for me, worrying while waiting isn’t going to help him.”